Been my family doctor for 30 years my question is can he randomly with out any warning or ever saying I could be U/A at anytime

Your doctor may be recommending them for your safety/health, though. I suggest talking with your doctor directly.

How do i get a divorce with missing spouce

If you've made diligent efforts, you can ask the court to allow you to serve by alternate means. Publication is one example of this.

As counsel stated, you could motion the court to have a GAL removed.

Can father also be held accountable for failing to provide emotional support for children?

Unfortunately, there are no legal repercussions regarding failure to provide emotional support. As you've done, you can get child support if his...

Can I videotape the process of me moving out with wife present?

Yes you are permitted to do that. It can be helpful to make a clear record of what you removed.

What are your rights to marital house you are still paying for and on the loan?

Both husband and wife have equal right to home access unless a court order says otherwise.

I probably will get divorce soon, what can i do?

Generally with a significant asset at stake like the home, I strongly suggest getting a lawyer.

Divorced parenting plan 50-50 she is custodial parent.refuses to bring daughter on visitation daughter is 12?

You may need to motion the court for parenting time help and/or contempt.

Can I get my husband to legally help with joint bills?

A court order would be the only way to attempt to get your husband to pay joint bills. A divorce or legal separation would work for this.

I filed for divorce from my husband back in 2007 since then I have given the lawyer over 7,000 dollars.

If you are dissatisfied with your lawyer you can always choose to go with another one. You are not bound to the relationship.