Im in the process of a divorce & just found pictures of my spouse proposing to another woman. can I use this against him.

I don't see on what basis it would matter for your divorce.

We have been legally divorced for 4 years, assessts were split verbally and personal loans. How can I be excluded?

Your ex would have to refinance you off the loan. It will likely be hard to enforce some kind of verbal agreement though. This is the kind of...

Can my ex be required to get a different attorney?

I think there definitely may be a conflict of interest claim you may want to bring to the court's attention.

You could just get him to sign over title of the vehicle to you. This should have been addressed in the decree. In either case, if he won't...

How long does court usually take if I have 100% custody and do you and does it sound like the judge would go in my favor?

I suggest giving yourself at least a few months before a move for starting the proceeding or even longer if the Judge will allow it.

My ex husband and I share 50/50 custody and he just informed me he is getting re married.

I agree with counsel. This seems like an issue to mediate or something similar before motioning the court for assistance.

Is there another way around this law

If he is abusive I suggest contacting your local domestic violence advocacy group and looking into an Order for Protection.

Is it possible that a divorce in CT could take 5 years?

Yes it is possible for a divorce to last that long, especially if one side is dragging his or her feet for some reason.

Going thru a divorce starting to wonder if my spouse is recording conversations over the phone if she is I never consented

Yes it is legal in Colorado to record a call without consent.

If you run an uncontested divorce in newspaper, after 60 days does the judge sign off on it or do you have to go to court?

I agree, go back to the original question for your answer.