Can I get itemized statements ?

Yes you have a right to know what he is spending marital money on. In addition, as Ms. Foss indicated, you may need to motion the Court for...

The terms of the decree should dictate what happens in this event, like if it reverts to one party or another or if she now owes you a portion of...

What you're entitled to receive and when you receive it will be dictated by the language of the 2009 divorce decree and PERA's plan rules.

This will depend on what the pension plan allows and how the divorce decree reads.

How do I respond to my ex-husband and stop him from making further attempts to interfere with my parenting time?

Unless the order says so, he does not have a right to schedule events for your children on your time. If he signed one up, you simply would not...

Can I leave home at age sixteen?

Under MN law you are a child until 18 or emancipated, and your parents would have the ability to force you to return to them.

Is it possible to get emancipated without parental approval? How much does an emancipation lawyer typically cost?

I agree with counsel. Your best bet is to try to make the best of it with your parents until you're 18.

Can I be there when the family conusaler is there or not?

It depends on the Court order and the logistics of whether the counselor and/or your wife allow it, depending on the circumstances of the visit.

I am divorced and my ex husband is not paying child support and threatening to sell our home that he agreed to allow me to live

Counsel is correct. The language of the decree should control how the property will be disposed, as well as how child support is determined.

During a divorce can one party take the only vehicle away from the other party?

Unfortunately, without a court order, you don't have a legal way to retrieve the vehicle.