I need to find a lawyer who is pro bono/ legal aid to handle my divorce. I live in suffolk county NY

I agree with counsel. Contact your local legal aid service about getting a full representation pro bono attorney.

Will I require an attorney when ending a 10 year live in relationship, which produced 2 children ages 8 and 5?

With shared debt and two children involved you would be making a big mistake to not get a family law attorney to help advocate for you.

I agree with both counsel. It will stay until both the court proceeding is over and until there is no longer probation.

Am I entitled to half my spouses income permanantly? Even if I just started back in workforce?

You look like you have a possible claim for spousal maintenance, but judges will decide it on a case by case basis and it can be very hard to...

I just found out a week ago that my daughter who is 6 is in Florida foster care, and want custody after a paternity test.

This is a very complicated legal situation with many issues. You're going to want a lawyer to help you beyond the advice you can get in a forum...

Will I be arrested if I update/renew my ID in Minnesota?

You could only be arrested if charges have been pursued against you.

Can you fight a harassment order past 45 days from the time it was served?

I agree with counsel. If you agreed to the HRO and you are past your time to appeal it, you're likely stuck with it.

Can i get an annulment i have been married since march 2012 he has a history of violence is violent towards me we are seperated

You're looking for a divorce, not an annulment. There are very specific and limited grounds for annulment and none seem to apply to your...

Am I still "considered married"?

If you got legally divorced, no you are no longer "considered married".

Can I sue bro's ex for not paying me $ she owes for a puppy she took 3 years ago and now she's claiming that she don't owe me.

Yes you can sue. Look up the 2nd district conciliation court.