Sounds like a messy situation in which both parties would be well advised to obtain legal counsel for the divorce.

How do I find an attorney that specializes in both probate and child guardianship in the state of Virginia?

As counsel stated, get an estate planning attorney in VA to draw it up.

How do i get my child home from cps as soon as possible

Comply with all provisions required by the court and by cps. Demonstrate that you've taken measures so that whatever behavior got your child taken...

What if I leave the country after being ordered to pay alimony? Can my wages be garnished? will I be arrested when I return?

If your wife pursues court action you will be held in contempt of court and a warrant will issue. The warrant will be enforceable nationwide.

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Can I file for a change in custody based on the below?

I agree with counsel, it does not seem like a lot to support a custody change. However, you should consult with a Florida family law attorney to...

Child Custody what are my rights as a father?

See answer in other thread

Child Custody what are my rights as a father?

You have custody rights, but you need to hire a VA family law attorney to skillfully and properly advocate for you. Otherwise, you are vulnerable...

Are there any firms here in metro Atlanta with both Georgia and Florida bar pro bono

I agree with counsel, contact your local legal aid agencies and ask about getting a full representation lawyer.

Having a time with my ex husband. We are divorced and we have 2 children together.

Try to work it out informally with your ex. If that doesn't work, have a GA family law attorney check the language of the decree to see what is...

I'm 15 and my dad had full custody of me, and i want to live with my mom, am i old enough to choose where i want to live?

No you cannot legally choose. This is on your mom, as counsel stated.