Should I speak to an attorney?

No you are not wrong to consider his motives, they seem transparent based on your description. You should absolutely get an attorney if he brings...

Can I stop paying my child support if I can not afford it?

If something has changed since the order you can motion the court to modify the amount. However, as counsel stated, there are potential legal...

Yes. If it were otherwise, you'd have dads on the child support hook across the country saying "I didn't know it was mine."

What is the required length in time that I have to wait for a child support modification in the state of Alabama?

Regardless of a timeline, if she's threatening you and making frivolous claims, you can attempt to get attorney's fees and costs awarded from her...

My ex lives in Illinois but our divorce was in Texas. He owes over $72,000 in back child support.

I agree with counsel. You've got a lot of back support on the line and it's not ok to do what he's done. Get a lawyer to help you collect.

When my court order obligation for healthcare coverage on my child ends, am I required to provide notification of termination?

I recommend notifying your ex and any collection entity involved as a matter of course to make sure it happens when it should, regardless of...

I was told, in the State of Minnesota, Motion of Contempt is not an option for payment of division of property per divorce decre

Duplicate post, see answers in other thread

I was told, in the State of Minnesota, Motion of Contempt is not an option for payment of division of property per divorce decre

I agree with counsel. Start a civil action to create the judgment and use one of the collection methods available to you.

How will his childsupport change with a new baby from another relationship?

It could change, possibly. He should use the calculator on the DHS website to see if it would be at least 20% / $75 change by having a non-joint...

Can you change your temporary custody order privately and have it legal by having a notary sign off on it?

You can always agree to things informally (without a notary) and if no one complains you both are fine. However such an agreement does not carry...