You should talk with your divorce lawyer. This was individually incurred debt.

I am being accused of making charges on a card that I didn't know was stolen.

Speak to a criminal defense lawyer, there, now. Before talking to any investigators!

Is it legal to be asked for credit card numbers, when you are applying for free membership?

If it is illegal, it is happening everywhere. I do not believe it is illegal.

Can my husband file criminal charges against me if he gives me permission to use a card with just his name on it, but yet turns?

You need to be talking to a family law lawyer. You cannot use the card.

There is no difference. One might be used in one state and another in a different one. The press reports what is convenient.

What is my best option for this underage ticket?

Yes, you could. Having a lawyer would help. Your statement is enough evidence to prove the case against you.

Five 12-oz beers is not an "only" situation. That said, it will be detectable in a urine test of this sort for days. The test is not for ethanol...

What happens to the lease if the landlord had died & the bank owns the property?

The bank cannot simply "kick you out." They may be able, though, to give you a notice ending your tenancy. It depends on how it is that the bank...

Caught shoplifting and have court what happens and what are consequences?

Chances are that this is a municipal juvenile charge and there likely will be a forfeiture (fine) and possibly some community service ordered. If...

If you are charged you can request it. You should be discussing this with your own lawyer, there.