Is there a service offered by an attorney that could help us get through the red tape of getting these documents back?

It would be expensive to have an attorney do this. It would be like hiring an architect to lay out your garden. I am a criminal defense lawyer,...

How exactly do I go about getting a court order to recieve the login information to one of my bank accounts? IP, time, date, etc

First, change the settings on your bank accounts, at least any pin and perhaps the account numbers. Then examine transactions, if any look...

How to address Identity theft and a 22 year old arrest warrant?

Any statute of limitations would have been "tolled" or stopped by the issuance of the warrant. I am reading this a bit differently than others...

HOW TO ADDRESS IDENTITY THEFT AND A 22 YEAR OLD ARREST WARRANT?

Any statute of limitations would have been "tolled" or stopped by the issuance of the warrant. I am reading this a bit differently than others...

Adult Protective Services says there are two type of laywers

That is not true, and whoever told you that is ignorant of the legal system. Case outcome depends much more on facts than it does on lawyering...

Are there charges I could press or how could I prove insurance fraud to make sure she doesn't pull this again?

Report the fraud to the insurance company and let them pick up the ball, or not. You want to stay away from her.

Chances are that it was in municipal court. If not, it was in juvenile court. The DMV can tell you which courts suspended your driving privileges....

Can an 18 year old date a 16 year old?

"Dating" is not governed by the law but the following things are: Sexual intercourse - which may include behavior you would not think of as...

Is there any way of getting charges dropped or reduced?

If you do not need to appear, this is not a criminal charge. I join in recommending that you have a lawyer, but you will not be required to have...

What are our options as to trying to defend against the police trying to charge him with supplying minors with alcohol?

Your son should plead not guilty and have his day in court. They certainly have evidence, via the backpack and probably statements by your son that...