Do we get a say about which professional mediator we use or can the GAL force us to see his recommendation whom I do not trust

You can and should have some say in choosing a mediator. Sometimes a court will assign a mediator if people cannot choose, but it definitely should...

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I'm being charged with contempt of Court. Can I ask for mediation so I can work something out with my ex-wife?

You can ask for mediation, but it may depend on how willing your ex is to engage in the process and/or whether the court sees it as something that...

This type of situation is very (very) fact specific, especially based upon the needs (and likely special needs) of the children. The children's...

Am I over reacting

I don't beleive you are over reacting. Practically speaking, your daughter is likely going to have to report this as she may be the only one who...

My divorce was final in May and i got the house in the decree. However, my ex still has not vacated the premises.

If you have a Judgment of Divorce that clearly gives you ownership of the home, you should be able to take a copy of that Judgment to your local...

In what state would I have to take my ex to court?

You are likely going to need to return to Oklahoma to enforce your judgment in that jurisdiction that granted and can enforce the judgment. ...

Can I change door locks on my soon to be ex-wife?

You should look carefully at any court orders or pleadings in your case before you make such a change. Your wife likely has presumtive rights as a...