Yes. If the court order requires you take the classes, she can certainly demand that you show her proof.

If you are using or missing drug tests, your kids will be removed from your care. Hire an attorney immediately.

Yes. The termination of parental rights and adoption needs to go through the court. Prices vary widely. Call around to attorneys to get specifics.

If you test positive, your kids will be removed and placed full time with the other parent.

If you’ve followed the requirements of the court order, you should be fine with your plans.

Hire an attorney immediately. Theft charges and convictions carry life long consequences. Don’t take this lightly.

Either through (1) emancipation, (2) guardianship, or (3) turning 18.

Start by reading Chapter 232C of the Iowa Code.

Discuss this with your attorney. If you aren’t happy with your attorney, hire someone else.

You’d need to file for divorce and litigate the custody issue. Hiring an attorney would be a good place to start.