Yes. What describe can and does happen and is legal.

18 is the age when someone gets to make this decision. Prior to this age, you’ll need to follow the court’s orders.

Put her stuff in your front yard and tell her to come get it.

You should plan on being tested at any time while on probation.

She’ll need to refinance the house to remove your name. If she doesn’t voluntarily do it, you’ll have to address that with the court.

Sure. You can file whatever you want with the court. It’d be a good idea to discuss this with your attorney before filing anything.

Nope. You cannot sue CSRU for anything.

Terminating paternal rights also terminates any support obligation but does not erase any bank support owed.

They can certainly ask but you’ll need mom’s permission or the court’s.

If he’s not happy with his current attorney, you or he can hire someone else.