Use Google or the find a lawyer option to search for an attorney.

You can ask the court for anything. Yes, the court can return the child to mom.

Child support can be used however you want.

By sending these to him, you can be charged with violating the nco and end up in jail with him.

Unless there's a court order stating otherwise, you can move wherever you want with your child.

Yes. He owns the house and, unless there’s a court order stating otherwise, can enter whenever he wants.

Based on what you’ve described, sole custody is highly unlikely.

Sure. You’ll likely need to pay an attorney thousands of dollars to represent you.

No. Child support is not paid directly to you. If you need money, you’ll need to get a job.

I'm not aware of any publicly available forms for contempt actions. You need to file the contempt pleading and then serve mom with that and any...