Can a grandma that has custody of child now that has an active case w/DHS &CINA and is a felon be able to get permanent custody?

Can you, yes. Will you, maybe. You should speak with a family/juvenile attorney in your area as soon as possible.

You can tell her supervisor whatever you want but that's not going to effect what DHS does. You should contact an attorney in your area to discuss...

Can I sue for discrimination if a drinking establishment barred me for trying to stop a fight outside, but ended up fighting

I don't see any legal basis for suing this establishment. You might want to stay away from there since you seem to be unable to avoid confrontations.

My husband's ex-wife is trying to initiate a lawsuit that occurred on "city" property during the wedding of their son.

She might have a valid legal theory. That's up to her attorney and the city to address.

Can domestic charges be dismissed?

Yes. There are numerous options available. He should contact a criminal defense attorney to discuss his options.

How do I go about getting a divorce

There are too many details to describe in this forum. You should contact a family law attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation.

Will i get jail or prison time for 3rd degree burglary first offense no priors?

Maybe. There are numerous factors that effect that determination. You should speak with a criminal defense attorney in your area.

Shouldnt my 1st degree theft charge be dropped. Isnt it all civil matter

If you're not happy with your attorney, you should contact another attorney in your area to discuss your case.

Can a father get 50/50 custody if he goes out every Friday and Saturday?

Yes. Shared care can work under those circumstances.

I got a misdemeanor and I want to use my deferred judgement.

There are too many factors to discuss via this forum. You should speak with a criminal defense attorney in your area.