Can I sue for emotional distress?

It appears that you have an attorney. If so, you should address this question to him/her.

Can I leave the state without son's father's permission?

Absent a court order, you don't need anyone's permission to leave the state with your son.

What is the average cost for visitation court?

If your children live in Nebraska with mom, this is a question for a Nebraska attorney.

To arrest someone? Little to no evidence is necessary to arrest someone for any crime including murder.

I want to contest my father's will

You can use the Find a Lawyer option to search for someone to help you. Good luck.

Am I able to view or get a copy of my parents divorce decree?

Yes. Call the clerk of court and request the file. They'll probably charge $0.50 per page, but you should be able to copy the entire court file.

Whom will get in trouble between the two of both on probation and living together

Talk to your probation officer or move out.

Typically, no. However, if you appear to be intoxicated, the court could require you to provide a sample.

What are my options?

Go ahead and pay the $580. That's much cheaper than dealing with criminal charges and hiring an attorney.

What happens when you get temporary custody of nephews in the sate of Iowa?

The kids father's parents have no rights to the children and their threats have no legal basis. The father, himself, might not have any legal...