How do I contest an adoption after my parental rights were taken?

You can't contest an adoption after your rights have been terminated.

Can I move 147 miles away (within state) with my 16 month old daughter without written permission from her dad?

Yes, you can move wherever you want with your child, unless there's a court order that says something different.

Spanking is considered abuse IF it leaves a mark. Spanking without a mark isn't abuse.

How long does it take a judge to grant a motion to set aside?

Anywhere between a few hours and a few months

Can someone get released on OR if they committed a class D felony and violated probation?

Yes. OR release is possible but unlikely.

Can I talk to the prosautor myaelf

Absolutely not. Plus, the prosecutor is ethically barred from talking to you.

How do damages get calculated? Pain and suffering? My lawyer has a ball park of a number i.e. seven figure number...

If you aren't happy with your attorney, use the find a lawyer option on avvo to search for someone else.

Does my probation officer her the right to tell me no she will not transfer my probation to missouri

Yes. You don't have an absolute right to transfer probation to a different state.

Can my husband's ex wife claim my income to increase his child support payments ,under law of state of IOWA

Your income will not be used to calculate his child support.

Can a 17 year old be able to move with another close family member?

Talk to your grandmother and go live with her.