You get out of an arrest warrant by either being arrested, turn yourself in to the cops, or show up at court and ask the judge to recall the warrant.

The police don’t want to bother with it, so they told you to give them indisputable proof of the violation before they’ll do anything.

The only person that can contact her on your behalf is your attorney. If anyone else contacts her for you, that’s a violation of the order and you...

You can go pick him up from dad or wherever the child is. If dad is violating a court order, you can file for contempt.

The court can order that you participate in paternity testing.

These are good questions for your PO. Ask him/her.

Yes. The court will set a bond amount that you can post and be released.

This forum is intended to answer questions. If you need more help than that (and you do), hire an attorney.

Hire an attorney immediately. If you cannot afford an attorney, ask the court to appoint an attorney to your case.

Nope. There’s no legal conflict with what you’ve described.