If someone is violating a court order, you should file for contempt.

You do not need to be on the birth certificate to pay child support. If the child is yours, plan on paying support. And, she is correct that you...

If she isn’t happy with her current lawyer, she should hire someone else.

Yes. You’ll need to modify custody to modify child support.

Typically the best way to file for divorce is with the assistance of an experienced family law attorney.

You’ve posted this question in the Iowa, USA section. This appears to be an Australia question.

Discussing this with an attorney is a good place to start.

You should hire an attorney immediately.

Hire an attorney immediately. Theft charges and convictions have lifelong consequences. Do not take this lightly.

Yes. What you’ve described can happen.