If there's no court order stating otherwise, you can move wherever you want with your son.

Do I need to submit exhibits to opposing side before a hearing on an application for makeup visitation? If so when?

You'll need to read any court orders or local rules on when you need to file these. Hiring an attorney would be a good idea.

Can she get her rights back?

No Her parental rights cannot be reinstated. Once you are 18, however, you can have whatever contact with her that you want.

How can I get a plea bargain or deferred judgement on fifth degree theft so it doesn't stay on my record ?

Hire or apply for an attorney immediately. Theft charges and convictions have lifelong consequences. Don’t take this lightly.

You’ll need permission from both PO’s regardless of whether you’re married or not. Since you’ve both committed crimes during your relationship,...

What should my next course of action be? Can I even do anything at all? There has to be..?

Call the police immediately and report this incident.

Can dhs go back on their word and take temporary custody of your kids if you failed to make it to a drug test with only one day

Absolutely. DHS can do what DHS did.

? can I fire my public defender at court at sentencing

You can explain to the court why you aren’t happy with your attorney and the court will decide if that’s sufficient to remove your attorney and...

Inherence and community property?

She can certainly claim part/all of it. Whether she gets any depends on numerous factors not presented.

Can i move out at 18?

Yes. You can move out at 18 regardless of what your parents say.