Can a 19 yr old child petition for child support to be give directly to her

While laws vary from state to state it would be my opinion that you are emancipated and as such you get to support yourself.

No on both.

What responsibility do I have as newly married to a man with debt?

You have no responsibility. His debts before the marriage remain hid.

Can a 1978 armed robbery conviction with a nolo contender plea be appealed now?

Probably not, but you can try to seek leave to appeal, because you no longer have any right to appeal due to the passage of time.

What remedies do we have against a judgement for a case we didnt follow through thinking the attorney would give up?

You can try to file a motion to set aside the judgment, or appeal it. However, since it doesn't sound like you defended the case your probably not...

Can I plead not guilty in a domestic violence( family violence) assault charges if I really didn't do anything?

Absolutely, you should plead not guilty and get, or request an attorney.

I was molested as a child multiple times by my (now) ex-step dad.

Do you really think he's going to have anything to collect? You might be better off trying to get state assistance for the services you need.

I agree, it really is a case by case situation. Although, it has been my experience that most public defenders are diligent and take their work...

I have physical custody and joint legal. I want to move out of state to ND where my husband is.

Your going to have to file a motion and try to obtain an order from the court permitting you to move the children out of state.

Is it okay for a landlord to refuse you housing on a basis of a csc charge, if the property is not by a school?

I would only add that a landlord would probably be within their rights to decline an applicant because of a prior felony conviction alone.