In North Carolina if a balloon mortgage comes mature during chapter13,and loan did not get reaffirmed

No, you have to pay the mortgage as agreed (or as set forth in you chapter 13 plan) in order to keep your home.

WILL I LOSE HOUSE IF I FILE BANKRUPTCY?

I agree that you need an attorney, and would suggest using the attorney finder feature at www.nacba.org

After filling chapter 13 case If i get job offer for as needed basis and income increase by 25% trusty will take all

Since your employment is "as needed", it does not sound at all stable. You claim your income will go up 25%, but does that depend on how much you...

Should I file for divorce or bankruptcy first?

I agree that a joint bankruptcy while you are still married is advisable. Gets rid of all the debt, so you two can concentrate on dividing up what...

House not reaffirmed in bankruptcy.

The lender appears to be working with you to find a way to keep the home from being foreclosed upon. By not reaffirming (I never recommend...

No, not if putting gravel down is reasonable maintenance of your right of way.

My neighbor has drive way to front of his house, do I have to let him use my drive to access his backyard

No, unless he has an easement, which it does not sound like.

My parents gave me four acres in 2000, now selling for 75,000 an acre. How do I determine the CGT?

What was your parents basis in the land. That is, what did they pay for it together with any costs associated with the purchase? Subtract that...

When filling out schedule I for a self employed person would regular income from business be before or after expenses?

And you will need to attach detailed income and expense reports to support the summary figures you put on schedules I and J. There is also a spot...

If my ex has passed away and he had a previous judgement against me can his estate carry out the judgement order?

Yes