Did the officer have good reason to stop me?

Police cannot tell you are on probation by sight. The office must have had some reasonable suspicion which was only heightened when you refused to...

Your question is not really a criminal question. You can and should do a criminal background check on yourself to see what appears. Then you will...

Is this true?

Basically you only have to read and follow the court order. If there is no court order then you are not required to do anything.

I don't want to go back to jail because every time I do, I violate my probation.

Some people are just bad probationers, so they actually end up worse than if they had just been sentenced to straight jail. Your post says you are...

Will my boyfriend that's 19 get in trouble for dating me? I am 16.

The term trouble is broad. He could have legal trouble if certain things happen, he could have trouble with your parents, if he continues to see...

How would this case go if it were to be brought up in court?

You need to stop making statements that can be used against you. The word statement has many meanings, so you need to contact an attorney right away.

When being extradited do you stop in each state you have a charge in ? or just go state to state & find all your charges ?

When being extradited you only go to the state that actually picks you up. During the extradition it is going to be internal procedure as to how...

How can I handle this without having to go back to indiana?

You will need to hire an attorney in Indiana. Most likely you will have to go back, but a local attorney will be better able to properly advise...

Can my ex still take her portion of the 401k a year and a half later? Is there a timeframe where she can't receive it?

Yes she can still take what the court has given her. Did she receive a sum certain or a percentage of the value on the signing of the JOD? Also...

What can I do to protect my children?

You need to motion the court to determine if he has appropriate housing for the kids. It does not sound like neglect / abuse to me. The child...