MUST the deed holder have the residence re-titled in their name only?

No, but as the sole survivor, they should create a new deed to put someone else on title if they should pass away. A lady bird deed would do the...

Will my friend know that I am searching the county website for her mortgage documents?

Just practically speaking, you won't know what she owes, because likely it has been paid down through the years, assuming it wasn't just taken out.

How to get a felony record expunged after 20 years

The other answers are correct. Interview 10.0 rated Avvo attorneys with experience on these and you can explore your chances.

Should I fight the ticket?

Fighting the ticket and negotiating the ticket are two different things. The first is usually very tough and the second is usually the best option....

What do I do? What if this is a prank/scam to get money? He tried telling me to give him $500 to disable her phone and computer.

If this happened in Livonia, you need to speak to a Livonia based attorney asap. Do not discuss another word on a public forum such as Avvo. Lots...

Negotiating the ticket is huge for your insurance. Contact a 10.0 rated attorney who handles traffic matters and get in to court.

What exactly do I do about this?

It's a scam or possibly a scamola. These are very common and the person trolls to see if you have an unpaid payday loan. Bottom line is ignore...

Will a written contract between mother and son stating that money borrowed will be paid back hold up in court

It should. That's why contracts are always better in writing. Seek counsel if a local attorney to verify, of course.

Can I sue them for pain and suffering? Or for taking video at a private event without consent??

No you cannot. You invited them to your wedding and they took pictures and videos. That is not grounds for criminal charges or a civil action....

Will there be any cost basis step ups for a home acquired by a daughter through a quit claim from deceased mother and dad?

No. This is why one should check with an attorney before making decisions like recording the deed. Going through probate in this case may have been...