The Executer of estate giving me the bum rush. I was my mother's caregiver for almost three years.

There are some facts missing from your question but it sounds as if you were living with your mother and taking care of her before her death. Now,...

What do I do regarding my father's will?

You are correct that the first item paid from an estate if funeral or burial expenses. However, did the ex-girlfriend approve of the funeral and...

You have not specified who is asking for the cancelled checks. The judge decides what "proofs" are needed. If the Judge has decided the cancelled...

I live in Michigan. Husband passed away and received check after. Can I cash? No estate or probate filing. No assets.

Unfortunately real estate must pass using probate so you must open a probate estate. Whether the house will go entirely to the wife is unclear...