I do not see a question here. Has your car been repaired?

Absent an emergency in the setting of an ER, you cannot force a doctor to provide treatment.

Yes you do. You have been charged with a crime and would be foolish to try and resolve this matter without the assistance of counsel.

I agree with Mr. Maitland. Here is a link to the request for reconsideration for that overpayment notice: https://www.ssa.gov/forms/ssa-561-u2.pdf

I agree with the two prior answers. At 18 you are an adult and should be able to obtain a substitute social security card at the SSA website.

Your wife's chances of success will be vastly increased with the assistance of a good attorney. That is especially so when you have the added...

The SSA takes privacy very seriously so I am unaware of any way for you to find out this information.

Unless you required medical attention your damages are limited to the cost of the product.

In my opinion, since they both reside in Brazil, divorce proceedings would likewise take place in Brazil.

The payee is not supposed to just give you the money but, instead, must spend those funds on your behalf. So, for example, rent, food, clothing,...