What should I do?

I agree with Attorney Sawyer, however, this may be one of those situations where there is no practical remedy.

Can I see my own doctor now?

I agree with Mr. Goodwin. If you were tell your doctors that the problems were related to an auto accident rather than your work injury then it...

Am I entitled to reimbursement for the medicines I had to pay for out of pocket while waiting to get awarded

Likely you will not be reimbursed for out of pocket prescription costs. However, it is certainly worth asking the SSA or your insurance company.

Is there any way I might qualify for any benefits?

I agree with Mr. Pham. You have a difficult case but I would encourage you to at least speak to a local SS attorney to flesh out the details. One...

I agree with Attorney Woolf. This does not sound ethical to me.

Who is at fault. Who should pay for the damage of my truck if there is any?

It seems to me that likely you are at fault. Fortunately there were no injuries and very minor damages.

Do I have a case?

I agree with the prior answers but would still suggest you have your records looked at by a good medial malpractice attorney in your area.

Would like to know what happens next, and after the person sues the insurance for the amount on my policy, can they sue me next.

I agree. Just turn this over to your insurance company and let them deal with it.

How can I protect al my investments and my military disability compensation as well as my Social Security from alimony?

I agree with the prior answer. Only a detailed conversation, preferably face to face, with a good lawyer in your area will help you resolve these...

What do I do in this situation to get my social security statements?

I agree with the two prior answers. It may be that there was identity theft involving your SSN and they will now require additional proof of...