How can i get representation on an open SSI appeal.. and how good are my chances of getting disability

We're not allowed to recommend anyone specific. However, there is a very good SS firm in Midland Park which is not too far from you.

Should I accept the offer in lieu of signing the termination agreement?

I suggest you have a thorough conversation with a local employment attorney to see what your options are. Use the Avvo "find a lawyer" tool.

Can they take my federal income tax check since I still owe them for the accident.

I agree with the prior answers although my answer may vary depending on what you mean by "they."

Where can I get disability Attorney who will get my documents to me without going court

We're not allowed to recommend specific attorneys here. Best advice is to use the Avvo "find a lawyer" tab.

Can't I get life insurance and my son the beneficiary

I don't see any reason why not. Insurance companies are usually happy to accept your premium payments.

Can s.s. or medicaid take any of it

I agree with Ms. Kellman. Your settlement will not effect SSDI. If you are receiving SSI the income would temporarily put you over the asset...

I think I have enough reason and they are denying that I was not married for 10 years, Could not have remarried prior to 2004.

You should retain local SS counsel to appeal this decision. Time limits are tight so act quickly. You may have to speak to several lawyers as...

I agree with the prior answers. Your efforts to find a loophole in the income rules for SSI will ultimately result in more problems.

Just about ready to give up, what can I do ?

I agree with Ms. Kellman but would add that if you hire an attorney the fee would be 25% of any back payment they get for you and nothing from...

Personal Injury settlement.

Usually settlement checks take about a month, however, there is no set time limit.