I request to be my mom's payee social security told me I could not. Why they said no

Could be for any of a variety of reasons. This is a question best asked of the SSA directly.

Does this mean i may win?

Depends on whether the judge goes with the hypotheticals by your lawyer or the ones they came up with.

Much depends on the extent of your injuries. Seek out medical attention as is appropriate then discuss in detail with a local personal injury...

You may indeed have a case for legal malpractice. Consult with a local attorney quickly as there are short deadlines for filing such cases.

Do my son dad get his SSI if we both gets him 3and half days?

It is up to the SSA to determine the payee. Regardless of who is made payee the money must be spent for the care and benefit of the minor child so...

To open a safe deposit box you will need to provide a social security number. While the SSA will not know the contents of the box its existence...

If I ask SSA for a copy of the form SSA-3373-BK that I filed, do they put it in my record that I asked for a copy?

Request a copy of your entire file not just the function report. Whether they note the request somewhere or not is irrelevant.

A debt collection agency trying to collect a debt from 15+ years ago with no documentation attached .

Sounds like a scam to me too. Just ignore them.

SSI is a welfare type benefit with very low and very strict asset / income limits. A GoFundMe account will most certainly affect your entitlement...

How do I get my social security card from my mom?

You should be able to get a social security card directly from the SSA. Visit your local SS office in Benton Harbor and bring all available...