What should i do if mom is refusing to let me see my son and my son is living with her ex?

The best thing to do would be to file a motion for contempt or modification of custody.

Need help with my ex he very toxic. My kid came home from visit and never want to visit again. My ex is phyco. My lawyer is bad

The best thing to do would be to file a motion to modify parenting time and request that he be placed on supervised visits.

What should i get a public defender or private lawyer for my underage drinking?

That is up to you and what you want to accomplish and whether you qualify. A public defender and technically do everything a private attorney can.

If the only thing standing in my way of getting off probation is my fees if I go pay them today will I be released from probatio

It is up to the probation officer. If they file a motion for discharge and it gets granted by the judges, yes.

Can i recant my statement/ confession?

Yes, it is possible. It is not easy though and there isn't a guarantee, but it is technically possible.

Can I file for legal custody of my nieces and nephew? They have been living with me since December 2017,

Yes, you can either file for third-party custody, guardianship, or adoption. Each has their own risks and benefits. It would be best to speak to an...

If you don't have an actual place of residence they can hold you in jail or work release.

You would be facing all of your back-up time on your sentence plus up to 2.5 years on an escapee charge if they file it.

How long should i serve on house arrest before i try to modify to gps?

Technically, you can do it at any time, but as a practical matter, most judges wouldn't even consider it as GPS isn't really considered a...

Can i get just probation for meth dealing with. No prior drug arrest ?

In Indiana, it is technically possible, but almost entirely unlikely to happen.