Should I apply for gaurdship of my newphews?

Yes, absolutely. You need to file guardianship of the children based upon these facts.

Can my daughter make a living will giving me her visitation with her son if God forbid something happened to her ?

A will won’t give you automatic custody rights. If something happened to your daughter, you would have to file for third party custody or a...

How can I stop him from taking my son on my days and giving him to other family members/so I cant see him or have him.

You need to file a Motion for Contempt and Appear to Show Cause. I would recommend filing that motion immediately and not simply letting time pass...

If my childs mother files a petition to relocate to a different county, what should I do?

You must file a Motion to Object and request a hearing. I would suggest having an attorney represent you at the hearing.

Will a notarized contract between my husband and I be valid in court?

Most likely it will not be valid in a court. Indiana is a no fault state.

Unless a signed agreement has been submitted to the court, you will both need to appear for all scheduled hearings. In regards to your custody...

When the Court signs the Order to Dismiss, the case is officially dismissed. You can request a copy from the clerk of that court.

CAN I ASK FOR A DIVERSION ON A FIRST TIME OFFENCE OF POSSESSION OF MARIJUANA

It depends on the county but the majority of the counties do offer a first time offender deferral/diversion option.

Will I and custodial both have to show up in court for a transfer to another state?

In all the cases in which I have filed these types of motions, both parties were required to appear for all court hearings.

You need to file for relief through the courts. I would suggest a motion to temporarily suspend father’s parenting time until he can remedy the bed...