It will most likely appear and show that you've been charged but not convicted.

What are the chances of my husband and I getting guardianship of my 3 year old nephew?

You need to hire an attorney immediately. If mom is unfit you have a chance at guardianship.

If my rights were terminated thru a CPS case do I still have to pay child support?

If your parental rights were terminated then you can't have a support obligation.

When my sons father pays child support- is this amount inclusive of the cost of child care?

The child care expense should have been included on the child support worksheet so the weekly obligation does not mean he must also pay any portion...

They could if they find that a hotel and the lack of stability is a danger causing the need for court intervention for you or the child.

My daughter has been living with her dad and I'm paying support she moved in with me

You need to file a motion to modify with the court that issued your last order.

How can I write a letter to a judge and grab his attention to make sense of what I need to say?

You need to hire an attorney you are comfortable with. You can't write the judge a letter if you have an attorney retained.

Can I move to the next county?

You need to file a notice of intent to move with the courts. Your ex has the opportunity to object to the move and have a hearing over the matter.

I have petitioned my ex for child support contemp. will they ask me questions as well or just him about his income?

If the child support office is involved then they usually ask questions. If they are not involved, since you filed you will go first with...

I got married in Feb 18,2018? Can I file for anollment

No but you could file for divorce.