How do I go about getting sole custody of my daughter

If there is a pending CHINS case you could ask the Court to award you custody. Generally the Court will require parents to undertake certain...

If my 19 year old moves home and goes to college locally, will I have to pay child support for her?

Child support terminates at age 19. There can be a request made for reasonable housing expenses made as part of the college contribution order

Do I have the right to then ask for the difference to be negotiated by having a portion of Ex-spouses other retirement plan?

The specific language of the divorce Decree in your case is going to be very important in answering this question. You should seek out the...

Can I go get get the little girl and do I have rights to her since we have been married the whole time?

If she was born during your marriage the law assumes she is your daughter. You do have the right to get her if that is the case.

What's going to happen when I go and do the hair follicle and I fail?? And the fact that its months late?

You should consult with a skilled family law attorney in your area. Use the "Find a Lawyer" tool here on Avvo. Develop a long-term plan regarding...

Could I establish temp. guardianship having an open cps case? What then becomes of my involvement with cps?

No other Court would have the ability to enter orders regarding your children until the CHINS matter is closed without the permission of the CHINS...

Did the GAL violate my and my children's rights by disclosing (false) CPS allegations to a 3rd party? Does immunity apply?

This question may be better suited in a professional ethics forum as opposed a Family Law forum- though I understand the family law interplay

How do we get her biological father to sign his rights over when he cannot be found, so we can obtain custody 2 states away?

Any custody actions would have to take place where the child resides, in West Virginia. You should seek out a skilled Family Law attorney there who...

Are you required by Indiana law to change the child's name to the father's?

The short answer is no, you are not required to change the child's name pursuant to any law. That being said, a Court may order that a child's name...

Unfortunately I don't think your particular situation lends itself to a simple answer. You may be entitled to file an action as a de facto...