Can i sue or somehow legally get him to do a DNA test??

You can file a paternity action in juvenile court. The court can then order DNA testing. If the person named is excluded, the court will assess the...

Can I limit the scope of my services so that it is no longer therapy, but coaching? How to find an attorney on this topic?

It sounds like you may be stepping over the line???? If you wish to pursue, you should meet with your attorney to fully discuss.

What do i do? Can they do that?

I agree with Mr. Rafter. It could also be some kind of credit card scam.

What can I do?

Please see my answer to your other post. It is clear that you need an attorney now.

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What can I do?

Unless there is a court order to take the kids to him, you can't be forced to. With what you have said ( and there's more ) you should get to an...

I can't get my son back, what do I do. We never did anything to make this happen to us to begin with.

There is a lot more to this than you are telling us. Without all of the facts it is impossible to give a good answer. You need to meet with an...

Can I just married to her?

There are too many other facts needed. You should hire an attorney to assist you.

What should I do if my ex will not give me an itinerary of a long out of state trip with the kids?

This may not help you now but you may want to consider filing to get your papers changed to cover this in the future.

What do I do? How can I make this end.

I agree with the others. There is more here. You should consult with an attorney. If in fear you could look at a CPO.

How can I get fair hearing with new commissioner knowing/hearing all facts. She ruled without reading my file.

You need an attorney to represent your interests. That is your best bet.