Can I received child support while we are still married and with no legal separation?

Keep in mind that child support does not represent you and will do things at their own pace. If you want someone on your side then hire your own...

How can there be the extreme opposite on my two cases?

You will need an attorney to assist you in getting this mess cleared up. You will need proof of when you were on assistance. There is a glitch in...

If the legal father refuses everything can I and the mom change the boys last name to mine or hers without legal fath approval?

Mr. Starke is right- you can't just choose what name to use. You need an attorney to help you establish paternity and visitation and support.

My husband stole our joint savings. How do I reclaim whats mine?

It never ceases to amaze me why someone would undertake a legal matter without an attorney. I have practiced for 36 years and there are many areas...

Why was i not notified, they are hiding behind HIPAA, what you think

I agree with Sheldon- HIPAA has nothing to do with this. If you don't like what has happened and you are in charge of your daughter then you can...

How can we prove we can't live with the amount of child support being taken out of us?

I agree with both of the others. You need an attorney to review what has been done to make sure it is accurate. The support statute does not care...

Generally speaking, you cannot use the messages you have described. You need an attorney to do this right.

What can I do with out going to court

I agree with Mr. Starke. If your kids well being is at stake, how can you put a price on that? Short of her being arrested for something, you will...

Can I get him out of jail and charges dropped

Depending on what he was charged with, you can let the other side know that you don't want this any longer. However since you asked for it to begin...

What do I do to find out how to file a civil suit and How do I get the prosecutor to charge the custodial parent?

It is clear that you are getting nowhere by yourself. You need a lawyer to review everything to see if it was done properly.