Can paternal grandparents seek visitation if paternity was never established before child's father passed?

You need to speak with an attorney familiar with grandparent visitation. This comes up more often than you might think. It might be possible to do...

Do you have a lawyer? What did they say? I would speak to your attorney or one that handles these type of issues.

What exact steps do I need to take to do this?

I do not believe any attorney on here is going to tell you the exact Motion you need to file. Did you try legal aid? I think you would need Court...

What do you do when the guardian at litem does not find in you favor.

Guardian Ad Litem's do not make findings. They make recommendations to the Court. That recommendation is not binding on the Court. Plus, your...

Can I do this with out the father's consent

Ms. King hit the nail on the head. Make sure you have him served properly. An attorney would be best bet to walk you through this.

Restraining order is probably your best bet. You can talk to an attorney to see if the "speech" is actionable.

Am I going to go to jail? What are my options?

You should move this question to an Indiana post and ask an attorney in Indiana. Ohio attorneys are going to have trouble giving you answers about...

How do I go about getting my belongings out of his house I went to the police department and they told me they couldn't escort

There are actions you can file against them. Best way to do so is to hire an attorney. You can find them on avvo. Good luck.

Do I have any rights at all? What can I do?

I would not say she has more rights but you certainly want to avoid a "mess" in front of the Children and police involvement. As Ms. King said this...

What is the process for shared parenting if one parent doesn't want to share the child? both parents live in the same town.

If you already have a shared parenting order that says that, she is in contempt. Hire an attorney and file an action in Court. Sometimes in...