With respect to ALL divorce attys, who come highly recommended for representation where the other party is also a divorce atty?

Talk to attorneys. There are many that could be certified in an attorney but choose not to do so. Ask friends that have had attorneys and their...

How do I get my belongings awarded in a divorce when a restraining order is present? I

File your own motion with the court for contempt. Most states allow attorney fees for contempt so you should talk to attorney.

Do i file for divorce in the state i reside or the state i was married?

If you meet the residency requirements of California, then you would file there.

What if my ex wife refuses to pick our children up from me on a Sunday when she is suppose to and they have school on Monday.

If the order says she is supposed to, file a contempt. Depending on how your local rules on visitation read, possibly it's okay to keep them...

Why would a judge order the noncustodial parent to pay for college when it was never stipulated in the divorce to begin with?

Not in Ohio, can't speak for New York. You could try asking an attorney there or maybe one will come here with an answer.

What's the legal age for kids to say what they want to do in visitation?

In theory 18 but it sounds like there are other issues going on that could change some things. The attorney representing the interests of the kids...

I have joint custody my sons mother is taking me to court on dv accusations saying we abuse him will this stick up in court ?

Unfortunately this happens all to often when there is a remarriage. The only way it stands up in court is if it's true. Serious allegation so get...

How likely is it that non custodial parent will get court ordered visitation?

Probably not good for her. He shouldn't have pulled back on visits and communication. As bad as she may be, a child still has two parents. It won't...

Yes and under these circumstances if you are correct, won't have much of a chance. Why does the non-custodial parent have sole/physical custody

If me and my ex fiancee AGREE on Joint physical custody and our current schedule, will I get it and what does it mean?

Seems like you had this up before. The only thing I would question is the child support being zero just because you have 50-50 sharing of time. It...