How can I make this Child support/Custody order fair for me, the hard-working and loving father of my son?

Modify the order you have now. Consult an attorney in NJ. In Ohio we call it shared parenting. In NJ it may be called something else.

Im going to court for visitation rights & a set child support i need to pay, the mom says ill look bad and drop it. is this true

Don't listen to her, she's trying to control your relationship with the kid. Some of what you state doesn't help but it's filed so do it or you end...

Can my child's father get overnight parenting time?

Depends if you have a court order and what it says. If it says he does, you'll have to file to modify it.

Hopefully someone from your state will come here to answer this for you. In Ohio, we file findings of fact and conclusions of law after the trial....

What are the best arguments against homeschooling/unschooling?

Not sure what you mean by unschooling but it's not a legal question, until the issue is in court, then it's a matter of argument. You can make...

Can a couple from an equitable property state also own community property if a spouse maintains property gains such as in CA?

Your case is stuck in California now. The best bet is to consult an attorney in California. It's possible one will come by here but not likely. ...

I am currently divorced and have full custody of my 2 year old son. Can parenting time for my ex be changed?

Yes, it can. There are a couple ways to do it. One would be to simply file a motion for supervised/restricted parenting time for him. Or, you could...

Should I obtain a restraining order against my spouse?

Nothing ever truly deleted. Not sure on the invasion of privacy because there would be other factors. He can question friends and they can refuse...

How long does the lawyer has to write divorce decree?

Most courts have local rules on how long attorneys have to prepare it. Wait a few days and ask your attorney to see how it's coming. If you still...

My husband filed our separation agreement in Newport News,Va but has not properly served me with divorce papers, I live .

Just answered this. Must be a double post. Please see my other response.