I'm in a divorce and want to know whether I can get custody of my stepson in my divorce or in juvenile court.

Not sure you can. Maybe a guardianship. You can visitation in the divorce. Hope you have an attorney on this one.

How long does it take to prepare a QDRO?

Question is really in two parts. Not long to prepare but sometimes getting it approved takes some time. The real issue is why you don't know how...

Is this legal?

I know people consider pets part of the family but this is more of a landlord-tenant question than a child custody question. Try that category.

Can the mother enforce a 2009 parenting plan that she never followed herself ?

She can but after all these years it probably makes sense to modify it. Circumstances are different now.

Part of my will reads:

Everything to your wife and if no wife, to the kids. I assume paragraph FIRST recites who you are and SECOND talks about debts of administration, etc

If I returned back to work then I quit my job can I still get a settlement from workers comp

Yes

Is an immigrant american qualified for SSI benefits.

yes

No. Just change the password, notify the bank, or open a new account at the same bank or another bank and transfer the money. If by access you mean...

I filed for divorce 10 years ago. I had a grounds hearing where I was sworn and had to testify. However, I never went back for

Don't know. You could check with the attorney that represented you or check with the clerk's office. You may be able to that online. What your...

I am about to go into divorce settlement negotiations. Is it better if I buy a car now or later?

Buy a cheap car and use other money you have spent on a car and use it for an attorney to handle the settlement negotiations.