Can I show videos and picture to a Family Judege during my court order as support to show my relationship with my son?

Properly authenticated, yes. You have to lay a proper foundation for the evidence. This is where an attorney with experience would be beneficial.

Is it legal for me to move in with a relative without parental consent at the age of 17

Take a close look at what Attorney Lubenstein says.

My bbays dad took the kids and wont let me see them and have them back what do I do to get them back

If you have custody there are options but really, the best thing right now if you haven't already done so is to get an attorney immediately. You...

What are my chances of getting custody as a father not on the birth certificate ?

Attorney Wegner gave you an interesting site to look at and use. I just went on and it's easy to navigate. Give it a shot.

Well, you're husband is presumed to be the father. In the actual paternity case you can deal with the name. I'd deal now with establishing...

What should I do for jurisdiction???

Proper jurisdiction appears to be NJ now. Maybe this would be a good case for you to at least consult an attorney, preferable be represented by one.

What do you do in child custody matters if you are unable to afford an attorney?

Try this as a start. Just click the part of the state you are in and contact info will pop...

Child Custody

First, I agree with the other attorney mentioning Attorney Kathryn Hilbush as someone you should see. You could do it either way but I'd use an...

Can I get custody of my grandchild if his mother spends no time with him.and there is no biological dad in his life ?

Probably after all these years but more facts are needed. The mixed race relationship gets you next to nowhere but the removal from a familiar...

Is a change in custody order null & void if order was never filed w/court?

If it wasn't filed, it's not an order of the court. Whatever the order was prior is still in effect.