What should I do? I do not want a divorce. I want her to get treatment. What specialty of lawyer should I get?

Since the divorce has been filed, you have to defend it. Get an attorney. One of the issues will be competence and if she can proceed without...

Should Mississippi have jurisdiction over Ohio? Would it benefit me to counter-sue for divorce in Mississippi?

Ohio has jurisdiction based on what you've written. You need to speak with an attorney in Ohio immediately.

This whole thing is messed up in my opinion. It's never good to be introducing children to a boyfriend/girlfriend immediately, especially when both...

Should my ex reimburse me for all expenses after the first $150 up to $600 that is paid with the HSA money from my employer?

Not necessarily but there's no way to really answer this. The court should have made an order and as part of that order, the uninsured or uncovered...

How can the judge ignore facts and decide on hearsay and opinions ? What should I do?

Since you have an attorney, talk to him again and if not satisfied, I guess the only thing to do is get a new attorney. Best to you, Lee

Can I get my money back since its court ordered and how do I go about getting it.

If the debt was one that was court ordered for her to pay, you could file a contempt. However, it sounds like there is something more going on...

Can I file to get some kind of monetary compensation, such as alimony, part of his retirement pension and 401K?

You would have a difficult time in Ohio vacating the judgment although fraud would possibly work. The good news is, you do not have an Ohio case...

What will happen if I do not show up in court and can he take custody of my child?

More than likely it's filed in the wrong state but you should get an attorney in the other state to raise jurisdictional issues to have it...

What are Ohio abandonment laws?

That's not really a legal concept of abandonment except in a sense for an adoption. Since you already have custody and he has no parenting rights,...

My husband and I are trying to get custody of his daughter from a previous relationship, where do we begin?

This is going to be difficult. He is going to have to get in attorney in the state where the child resides. Paternity is going to have to be...