Will I need a lawer for going 70 on a 55 and will my insurance go up?

Get a lawyer. He or she should have little trouble getting you a deal which will not cause your insurance rates to increase.

What papers do I fill out at courthouse who do I talk to to get her back?

This isn't as simple as filling out some paperwork. You are going to need an attorney.

What can do about this to prove he is innocent of the tampering charge? Will they revoke him for this? I'm so lost

He should get an attorney. That's about all the advice we can give you based on the information you've provided.

Will I be subject to any consequences if I payed her?

Did you pay for such photos? Don't answer that here. If so, you can certainly be charged. If you solicited them, you could also be charged. Now...

Will I go to the detention center How long do I have to wait in a holding cell

You probably will not go to the detention center, though you may have to go to court if a criminal charge is filed.

Misd. Assault & Terroristic threat- no arrest. Will I have to go to court? When and how will I know?

Most likely you will receive a document called a summons with a court date. This will be mailed to your last known mailing address. Yes, you can...

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Advice

Before charges are filed your options are simple: (1) you can wait and see, or (2) you can hire a lawyer to try to avoid having the charges filed...

When will my property be returned?

You property is evidence in an open investigation. They aren't going to give it back until the investigation is complete. Now is a good time to be...

Sealed record and public article online

No, you would not be able to sue. The best you could do is get them to remove it.

How can I go about getting a (Temporary protection order removed)

You can file a motion seeking to modify or terminate a TPO. As David said, it will be an uphill battle if there is a pending domestic violence charge.