Can I get this problem rectified without being in court myself, and without huge fees (I'm broke)?

You are going to have to go to court to clear this up.

That's probably not going to help. Is is silver instead of blue or something like that or is it neon pink instead of black?

Will I be required to go to diversion at a certain time?

They may be willing to work with you, but they hold all the cards so remember that when you ask.

See explanation of situation

This question is unclear. Do you or do you not know you were recorded? If you were recorded, it's likely she was put up to it by law enforcement...

Will I have a suspended license?

A suspension will likely result with such a high speed. Get a lawyer to help you negotiate a better outcome.

Chances of having my visa approved?

Luckily you were never convicted of anything serious. You will have to answer their questions honestly and provide documentation of these outcomes....

Contributing charge restraining order?

A restraining order is valid until it expires by its own terms or is terminated by a court. You can petition the court to terminate such an order,...

What Will Happen To Me ? Can I Avoid Probation And More House Arrest By Doing Time In Juvie ? Would A Judge Give Me That Option?

I doubt the judge will negotiate sentence like this, but some do. You need to have a lawyer. You need to talk to him or her about this. If you...

What are my options if my license is suspended for non payment of an insurance claim?

Until you consistently make an agreed upon payment amount, you will have this problem.

Should the parents been notified by the police department

Should they...of course they should. Will anyone actually do it is a different question. There's no law requiring anyone to notify you that your...