What steps does he need to take in order to come home.

You don't say what the documents prove, what he was convicted of, or what his sentence was, so it is difficult for us to assess what steps may be...

Yes, to both questions. You should hire an attorney. "It was unsafe for the officer to chase me" as a defense will most likely yield an observation...

What are the laws on someone charged with carnal knowledge of a minor being in contact with my 9-yr-old?

The restrictions placed on sex offenders are very case specific and can be tailored by the court/probation/parole departments. Given the closeness...

Will I be able to get representation for a wrongful arrest without probable cause?

You certainly get representation from the public defender or a private attorney, if you are charged with a crime. If the matter remains...

How would i handle this

What is the status of your CT license? FL won't give you a license, if you are still suspended, revoked, or otherwise not all good with CT.

Can we be fined/arrested for a minor saying they drank at our house when we did not serve/provide alcohol in anyway?

Charges are not likely, but you should hire an attorney if the police come sniffing around.

How do I get permission to drive to work, counseling NA following OVI

You can certainly get privileges from the Ohio court, which will clear up the issue as far as Ohio is concerned. The question is will WV...

It's unlikely but not impossible that police or a prosecutor would pursue a charge here. Try to keep it between friends/family. If the police are...

Can I get this public intox thrown out or should I go alone and pay fine (I am a construction foreman

From what you've described, its unlikely you can get it thrown out, unless there is still time to do blood tests to prove they spiked your drink,...

What's going to happen? If I don't get my license will they just make me pay the full amount? Will the insurance increase?

A local traffic attorney can often work this sort of thing out with minimal damage. Hire one.