Well, she doesn't sound very nice, but she doesn't have to be. I doubt she would actually have you arrested for the coffee, but if she believed you...

Can a attorney let the prosecutor file a motion to extend a indictment without the inmates knowledge

The defendant does not have to agree to a time extension for an indictment.

I am attempting to figure out how to get my record expunged, but have more than 2 misdemeanor convictions.

An attorney really needs to review your entire record to assess what can and/or cannot be done about the convictions. The records of dismissed...

Can they still charge me and what can I do to put this behind me

Best to get an attorney. As you see, they have charged you.

Can I sue the state and or sheriff's office for lost wages because a bad judgment of law that caused a hardship on my life?

It's unclear to me where you think the "bad judgement of law" is here. The police enjoy broad immunity from suit while performing their duties. I...

Can I get charged with an underage without being breathalyzed or taking any tests?

Yes, they can charge you with this offense without any breath or other tests. You should hire an attorney. There are good options for keeping this...

Can the federal grand jury file for a second indictment

Yes, they can. They can also drop it and come back and indict him later. The bottom line is that he will almost certainly be indicted and should...

How long I looking at in prison

Most F3s are punishable by up to 36 months, though there is a group that can still get you 60. An F5 is punishable by up to 12 months.

How can we get this resolved? What steps do we need to do for the charges to be dropped?

You need to get your husband a lawyer ASAP. Don't expect the prosecutors to just drop it. That isn't what they do.

What chance of being bonded out of jail for dom. violence felony 3 (3rd incident) does my fiance have at his pre trial?

Probably quite low. First, even if someone posts his bond, he will be held until he sees a judge on the post-release control violations. Second,...