How can I withdraw my retirement from a union hall I acquired in a divorce?

You or an attorney on your behalf will need to find out what the conditions are (i.e. when, how etc.) with regard to when you can begin receiving...

If I switch jobs and the new job pays quite a bit more would my child support increase or will they just send the current order

Technically, you would have an obligation to report your increase in income to CSEA. The remarks by the above attorneys are correct about whether...

The biggest obstacle you have is your admission that you "could've" been driving coupled with the statements from your "friends" that you were...

Violation

The short answer is "yes." In all probability, at the time you were placed on probation you were given a list of "rules" you had to follow....

Can I go to jail for leaving the county while on non reporting probation?

Your safest option would be to contact the court's probation department and talk with someone there just to make sure.

Why was my probation changed from non reporting to reporting?

It doesn't sound like they have ordered it, yet. They want to discuss various issues (money sounds like the most pertinent). It is probably a form...

If I have a child and then end up marrying the child's father would I file for a divorce with children or without?

It is a divorce with children, however, you don't indicate whether the issues surrounding the child were ever litigated in the juvenile court prior...

The only thing I can come up with is that they are indicating that the charge is a felony.

What are my options of fixing my situation with a misdemeanorcharge of assult?

I suggest you meet with a criminal attorney in your area and find out whether you qualify for an expungement.

That's why its called a "secret indictment."