Can his charges get dropped or can he be released because he was wrongfully kept?

You really need to call a local attorney to have them look into this for you. Something doesn't sound right here.

do we have a leg to stand on, how long can they hold him, before arresting, charging him with something,

He needs an attorney. If he waits, there might not be enough time for the attorney to prepare for the parole hearing.

What can I do

Start looking for a local attorney now so that you're ready to go when you're charged. Do not talk to the police.

What can I do to resolve this without going to jail and losing my job

Unfortunately, the court does expect you to put your obligations to the court above your job. Intervention in lieu of conviction is a gift. If you...

How do i go about this and what are my best options and smartest choices from now on. isnt everyone entitled legal rep. ???

They will send your case over to the municipal court and give you a public defender there.

How could I actually receive a citation without an officer present?

I have had clients charged after bus drivers report the incident. It happens. You should hire an attorney to help minimize the damage. Good luck!

Is there any way to expunge the reckless driving from my record and get back to my job?

No. Traffic offenses are not expungeable. You could try to hire an Ohio attorney to withdraw your plea and attempt to get the charge amended to...

It is extremely unlikely that you would be arrested...this time. They would have to go back and review their surveillance video and, then, attempt...

What will happen if I go to open court and pay my fine.

You cannot simply pay your fine in order to get out of the probation violation. Certainly, it would make you look better if you paid it, though....

If I bail him out would Cuyahoga hold and arrest him? What may be the outcome of his probation violation?

Yes… They could come arrest him. Also, it is unclear whether or not he will get any jail time on the new charge. It is probably best to wait until...