As pointed out by Mr. Ertle, you lack authority to transfer any of your father's property without court permission. More importantly, it is...

I am helping my husband get his papers and he already got the green card and his social but right after that he changed alot .

This is not really a tax law question. I am changing the category of your question to "Immigration" so you will receive more responses.

We sent in amended tax forms for 2014- 2016.

To add to Mr. Zagara's response, as you have already filed the returns, at this point you need to check your account transcripts, which you can get...

It is obvious from your question that you need to get the assistance of a qualified tax professional -- a CPA, enrolled agent, or tax attorney --...

This is not really a tax law question. I am changing the category of your question to "Immigration" so you will receive more responses.

This is not really a tax law question. I am changing the category of your question to "Immigration" so you will receive more responses.

Does UCIS deny my green card applicatin if they see in my tax returns a tax form from self-employment during f1 student visa?

This is not really a tax law question. I am changing the category of your question to "Immigration" so you will receive more responses.

If I refuse to file I-751 with my immigrant spouse and he files alone will I be able to state my reasons to a judge?

This is not really a tax law question. I am changing the category of your question to "Immigration" so you will receive more responses.

Is there any obligation on the city to notify a new resident of where they should pay taxes (mailing = Dublin; tax = Columbus)?

As Ms. Marshall pointed out, incongruity between a taxpayer's mailing address and taxing district is fairly common in central Ohio, and...

Is it legal for a trustee of an irrevocable trust to change the settlor's Will with a Private Settlement Agreement?

It is impossible to advise you without knowing more about the specifics of your particular situation. You need to consult an expert Ohio probate...