Can I report my ex for rape?

Sorry for your situation. You should talk with a prosecutor in your area to see if they think your case would be strong enough to charge him.

How can I stop sexual harassment and threats from ex husband?

Contact the local prosecutors office.

Can we be responsible for child support?

Seems like this may be an FBI case for kidnapping if it’s truly an abduction situation.

What do i do when courts visitation says as agreed upon and i have in writing from the mother every other weekend and wens

File to modify the order to not be “as agreed” and identify specific times.

Guilty of unlawful conduct with a minor? Does having temp emer custody, or that I’ve paid 14yrs of child sup matter? Do I lose?

Not likely, sounds like you’re the more appropriate parent. Can always ask for a guardian ad litem and let them make a recommendation.

Did he have custody? Who has custody now? Was this a shared parenting plan with joint custody? File now to modify or get custody. Once he’s out he...

Pension division in a dissolution

You gave up any claims toward his pension with the separation agreement.

What is the likely hood my ex will get shared parenting?

Hard to say but with that type of history a short term “sobriety” stint isn’t likely going to get him unsupervised parenting time.

He’s been in jail for 2 years? Speedy trial rules would likely be an issue. Does he have an attorney?

Not getting a divorce “for the children’s sake” doesn’t sound like a reason to remain married if he’s essentially abusing the children through his...