I was suppose to be off parole in 04//11/19 but now they say I absconded

I agree. You need to hire an attorney.

What can I do my former landlord passed away but he had given me a washer and dryer now his wife has pressed criminal charges

You need and your fiancee need to hire an attorney. The charges could be a class A misdemeanor or a class D felon with potential for 12 months in...

Extradition?

You did not ask a question. If your question is can you be extradited, the answer is yes. Hire an attorney.

Am I eligible for probation?

I agree you need to hire an attorney.

Can a misdemeanor of check charge in KY be vacated if I plead guilty ?

I agree. You can have the charge expunged 5 years after completion of any sentence but it will not be vacated

If probation revokes my probation what exactly happens ?

If you have 1 year on the shelf you will go to prison for 1 year. Time on probation does not take time off your sentence.

I’ve missed a show cause hearing due to working out of state now what do I do?

You need to contact your attorney. You need to get in compliance with all of the terms of your release.

Can I receive a prayer of judgment if I had gotten one In NC I live in ky now and got a speeding ticket?

Only North Carolina offers a “prayer of judgment.” You may have other options available to you such as a diversion, county attorney traffic safety...

It sounds like you were given a sentence of 18 months in jail but will be on probation for 3 years. You should discuss this with your lawyer.

How can I get this drop from theft charge that I didn't do

I agree. As you said, you need an attorney.