Children do not get to make that choice. He has to go or the other parent could be held in contempt. You can make motion to change the parenting...

Yes that's what you need to do. . .

Yes they can. . .

If you are 18 and have graduated high school, you are an adult who makes their own decisions.

call the Michigan Vital Statistics department and if it can be done, they can tell you how.

The terms you mention aren't in the order, so you will need to file motions about the co-sleeping and about your parenting time.

You will need an attorney in/near Clark Co to file a motion in the existing case to modify the parenting plan. Unless father no longer resides in...

You set up your own and pay your own costs.

Yes, she can. Child issues can always be revisited.

The bank is correct in what they told you that you need.