Clearly gf can and did get the order. What's missing here is that GF must also work there. I would guess the order could be amended.

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Since dad is deceased, you are the sole custodian. You may need to file for guardianship, but that seems redundant. Ask them if the custody...

A party can make motion for dismissal. I think it would be better to move to downgrade the DVO to no unlawful contact though.

You are not divorced. The case will be dismissed. You or the other party need to file a substantive pleading or another filing fee will have to...

There are 2 types of termination of rights, voluntary and involuntary. You may be able to terminate involuntarily. Speak to an adoption...

Yes, she can. She can go to the CS office and get support since you aren't living together. If you want a divorce, get it done.

She can't remove your name unless she committed forgery. ...

Unless you have someone to adopt your kids, Dad's rights will not be terminated. A divorce won't override the no contact order, but that order may...

Make a police report for theft and sue him for the value of the guns. Depending on their value you may be able to proceed in small claims.